'I'm Struggling With Survivor's Guilt': Lawyer Fighting Coronavirus Had 'Weeks of Hell'
Attorney Mark Dubois, the state's first chief disciplinary counsel, gives his firsthand account of what it was like to contract COVID-19 and how he fought back from it.
April 06, 2020 at 12:08 PM
3 minute read
Mark Dubois fought for his life.
A law school professor, attorney at Geraghty & Bonnano and Connecticut's former chief disciplinary counsel, Dubois returned home Friday after an eight-day stay in a hospital to treat COVID-19.
He was in isolation.
He was nervous.
And he wrestled with guilt.
"I feel blessed that I was spared the worst of it, and got incredible medical care," he said. "Many were not so lucky. Why me? Why did I deserve to live?"
A columnist for ALM's Connecticut Law Tribune, Dubois has long served as a resource for attorneys, law students and journalists. But he was reluctant to step into the spotlight.
"I'm struggling with survivor's guilt, so I don't want to make this too much about me," he said. "But here is some info which others might learn from."
'Blessed, unworthy and grateful'
Dubois lost about 25 pounds during his illness.
He is regaining strength after about two weeks of experiencing his first symptoms.
"I am home, getting stronger every day, and planning to resume teaching remotely," he said. "I feel blessed, unworthy and grateful."
The 70-year-old thought he'd been doing everything right to protect himself and his family. He got tested only because he was volunteering at a soup kitchen in Provincetown, Massachusetts.
"I have no idea where I picked it up. I was socially isolated, and working with a small crew cooking. I was running and biking alone. We were avoiding any crowds, stores and such," he said. "Just lucky, I guess."
Related: Teaching in the Time of Cholera: I Caught the COVID-19 Virus
What followed was "two weeks of hell," Dubois said.
"I was tested—twice—but the results were slow coming in. After several days in the hospital we got the results of two tests—both positive," he said. "It was no surprise to anyone. By then I was in-patient in the hospital."
Dubois remained in isolation at the University of Connecticut Medical Center, where he doctors and nurses had to visit him in full protective gear.
"These folks are heroes," he said. "I owe my life to them."
Dubois also thanked his friends, family and colleagues.
"My wife relied on a network of nurses, friends and medical professionals and has been incredibly supportive throughout it all," he said. "She missed the worst of the symptoms. I don't know what I would have done if she were as sick as I was."
Now, the attorney is turning his focus to new goals. "Regain some of the 25 pounds I lost, return to teaching, and pay back the universe," he said.
His best tips: a digital thermometer and a pulse-oximeter to test blood oxygen were invaluable tools to follow his progress.
"Avoiding infection in the first instance is paramount," Dubois said. "After that, all you can do is treat the symptoms. Wash, isolate, stay safe."
Related stories:
How Coronavirus-Related Stress Could Lead to Post-Traumatic Growth
San Antonio Judge Infected With Coronavirus: 'Please Stay Home'
NOT FOR REPRINT
© 2024 ALM Global, LLC, All Rights Reserved. Request academic re-use from www.copyright.com. All other uses, submit a request to [email protected]. For more information visit Asset & Logo Licensing.
You Might Like
View AllWrongful-Death Case Against Adult Day Care Sparks Call for State Regulation
3 minute readTrending Stories
Who Got The Work
Michael G. Bongiorno, Andrew Scott Dulberg and Elizabeth E. Driscoll from Wilmer Cutler Pickering Hale and Dorr have stepped in to represent Symbotic Inc., an A.I.-enabled technology platform that focuses on increasing supply chain efficiency, and other defendants in a pending shareholder derivative lawsuit. The case, filed Oct. 2 in Massachusetts District Court by the Brown Law Firm on behalf of Stephen Austen, accuses certain officers and directors of misleading investors in regard to Symbotic's potential for margin growth by failing to disclose that the company was not equipped to timely deploy its systems or manage expenses through project delays. The case, assigned to U.S. District Judge Nathaniel M. Gorton, is 1:24-cv-12522, Austen v. Cohen et al.
Who Got The Work
Edmund Polubinski and Marie Killmond of Davis Polk & Wardwell have entered appearances for data platform software development company MongoDB and other defendants in a pending shareholder derivative lawsuit. The action, filed Oct. 7 in New York Southern District Court by the Brown Law Firm, accuses the company's directors and/or officers of falsely expressing confidence in the company’s restructuring of its sales incentive plan and downplaying the severity of decreases in its upfront commitments. The case is 1:24-cv-07594, Roy v. Ittycheria et al.
Who Got The Work
Amy O. Bruchs and Kurt F. Ellison of Michael Best & Friedrich have entered appearances for Epic Systems Corp. in a pending employment discrimination lawsuit. The suit was filed Sept. 7 in Wisconsin Western District Court by Levine Eisberner LLC and Siri & Glimstad on behalf of a project manager who claims that he was wrongfully terminated after applying for a religious exemption to the defendant's COVID-19 vaccine mandate. The case, assigned to U.S. Magistrate Judge Anita Marie Boor, is 3:24-cv-00630, Secker, Nathan v. Epic Systems Corporation.
Who Got The Work
David X. Sullivan, Thomas J. Finn and Gregory A. Hall from McCarter & English have entered appearances for Sunrun Installation Services in a pending civil rights lawsuit. The complaint was filed Sept. 4 in Connecticut District Court by attorney Robert M. Berke on behalf of former employee George Edward Steins, who was arrested and charged with employing an unregistered home improvement salesperson. The complaint alleges that had Sunrun informed the Connecticut Department of Consumer Protection that the plaintiff's employment had ended in 2017 and that he no longer held Sunrun's home improvement contractor license, he would not have been hit with charges, which were dismissed in May 2024. The case, assigned to U.S. District Judge Jeffrey A. Meyer, is 3:24-cv-01423, Steins v. Sunrun, Inc. et al.
Who Got The Work
Greenberg Traurig shareholder Joshua L. Raskin has entered an appearance for boohoo.com UK Ltd. in a pending patent infringement lawsuit. The suit, filed Sept. 3 in Texas Eastern District Court by Rozier Hardt McDonough on behalf of Alto Dynamics, asserts five patents related to an online shopping platform. The case, assigned to U.S. District Judge Rodney Gilstrap, is 2:24-cv-00719, Alto Dynamics, LLC v. boohoo.com UK Limited.
Featured Firms
Law Offices of Gary Martin Hays & Associates, P.C.
(470) 294-1674
Law Offices of Mark E. Salomone
(857) 444-6468
Smith & Hassler
(713) 739-1250