One of the advantages of practicing in Connecticut is that we all pretty much know each other. This familiarity creates an etiquette that makes outrageous conduct unacceptable. Seeing and dealing with each other so often breeds a code of conduct that leavens our behavior. We know, as a judge friend once told me, "You have to remember, one day you're the hammer; the next day you're the nail." Our awareness of that fact shapes the environment in which we practice.