We’ve spent a lot of time lately talking about civility. We all know why it has become the topic du jour, but my impetus is actually the recent Hartford County Bar Association symposium. As a speaker and interested participant, I looked around the court room where the event was being held, and I saw many judges and middle-aged lawyers. Where were our younger colleagues? Probably worrying about billable hours, or all current with their CLE credits. Everyone who spoke, used the phrase: “we’re speaking to the choir.” So how do we expand the choir and why do we care?