One thing that keeps me busy now that I don’t have to punch a clock at the Judicial Branch is taking care of my mother. It may be the hardest work I have ever done, but it is also the most rewarding. I was lucky that a good friend gave me some pointers when I began this process a few years ago dealing with my Dad, and in the spirit of “paying it forward,” I thought I should share those with any of you who may be facing or approaching the prospect of dealing with an aging parent.

First, last and always, keep a sense of humor. Sometimes it can be really hard to deal with all of the craziness related to the role reversal when children become the parents. There can be resentments, hurt feelings and frustrations. Best not to take any of it too seriously. The great thing about short-term memory loss is that things are soon forgotten. Smile, let it go, move on.

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