After reading Judge Richard Dollinger's July 2021 decision in E.E.C. v. S.S., 2021 NY Slip OP 21258 (Sup. Ct., Monroe Cty), this author was reminded of the Victoria Kann children's book titled "Pinkalicious." The seminal quote from Kann's book—delivered by a Mom to her daughter in the book—is as follows: "You get what you get, and you don't get upset."