Addressing the members of the New Jersey State Bar Association (NJSBA) Family Law Section at their annual retreat in late March, I discussed how New Jersey laws and courts have treated (more often negatively than not) the LGBT community over the past 75 years. A particular focus of my remarks was the political and legal strategy behind the battle for marriage equality over the past two decades—how recognition of the relationships of committed same-sex couples migrated from an idea to case law to a codified statute.