As Dr. Ken Wise, a Dallas area clinical psychologist, wisely says, "no one is at their best during a divorce."  This statement is true for clients who have made the decision to initiate divorce and are ready to proceed and also for clients who may feel blindsided or not prepared when their spouse filed for divorce. Divorce is difficult and causes stress, fear of change and uncertainty for any person involved; but for some, the emotional toll is greater than others.