"Victory has a thousand fathers, but defeat is an orphan," lamented President John F. Kennedy. While lawyers embrace the garlands of victory, they eschew the ashes of defeat. Losing is given short shrift in legal education and in mentoring; yet it deserves equal billing on each of our career marquees. There is an art to losing, not just to winning, and it hinges on the ability to reframe. So, here is a short guide for a lost art.