Narcissism is often characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance and a deep-seated need for admiration. However, beneath that facade lies a complex interplay of psychodynamics that can lead to tumultuous forces within the mind of the narcissist—specifically, the tension between their internal sense of power and entitlement versus their pervasive feelings of inadequacy. Understanding these dynamics is crucial for judges, family law practitioners, trial consultants, mental health professionals, and litigants, all of whom are charged with navigating the challenges posed by narcissistic individuals in family law cases.

Understanding the Narcissistic Psyche


At its core, narcissism is not merely about egotism or being the smartest person in the room. It encompasses a fragile self-esteem that is often masked by grandiosity. According to contemporary psychodynamic theories, narcissists oscillate between feelings of superiority and profound insecurity. This internal struggle can manifest in a variety of ways, particularly in high stakes family law litigation, where power dynamics are inherently at play.