Q: My friend told me about a job he was excited about and was interviewing for. It sounds like the perfect job for me and I want to apply, too. Would this be inappropriate?

Given that you heard about this new opportunity through your friend — particularly in the context of his own excitement, interest and interviewing, it would be best for you to step aside and allow your friend compete for the opportunity without you in the mix. Even if this “sounds” like the perfect job for you, there is a huge downside potential if you pursue it. First and foremost, you could risk losing your friendship. To go behind your friend’s back and apply for the position yourself would be inconsiderate and undermine your friendship. It’s kind of like dating your friend’s ex without his/her knowledge. It just isn’t cool.

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